A couple of references
1. The event horizon is that sphere surrounding a black hole, within which nothing that's inside (no matter, no energy, no information) can get out. Just as a black hole accumulates canines to an infinite density, so it is that nobody inside the event horizon to adequately explain that scene to an observer outside.
Time doesn't work the same for one who is more closely approaching that infinite density, as it does for one 'further out.' We live in dog time.
Any large enough group of sufficiently happy dogs sleeps a very large part of the time. So it is to an outside observer that objects falling into the black hole appear to slow down and stop.
Only human foolishness can violate physical principles. In this case foolish humans, having throwing the black hole into motion, may persist in trying to live in their old time frame, the one that applies outside the event horizon. The resulting frame drag produces bags under the eyes and an odd fixation on mops. Eventually it pulls the foolish humans into bits.
2. Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. But if you're here, you knew that one already.
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These are connections outside the event horizon.